noramelikian@sbcglobal.net

      Every few months I alter my schedule based on personal goals for the upcoming quarter. I’m not as organized as this endeavor might imply. I simply know my achievements are few if I don’t allocate my time properly. This month, as I filled my calendar, I wondered if the scrutiny of my schedule would lead one to believe God is a priority in my life.

      I went about my task and divided my priorities into categories: family obligations, work commitments, personal aspirations, exercise goals and spiritual growth. The placement of the last entry surprised me because I thought, instead of last, God should be first. Seeking justification based on the actions of others, I discovered a commonality – there is a disconnect between what we say and what we do. We believe God is a priority but circumstances prevent our support of this notion with action. If actions speak louder than words, are these “circumstances” merely excuses?

      The universal complaint, “I don’t have time,” rings true until we dissect our daily activities. An evaluation of our days–and evenings–reveals many of us squander precious minutes, eventually totaling hours over a period of time. One friend spends two hours socializing on the phone daily. A business acquaintance participates in at least one networking event each week. Another confidant crams numerous activities into each weekend. I’m not an example for imitation since I typically watch at least one hour of television each night. 

      As my friends and I discussed this issue, we realized time devoted to God requires discipline…like everything in life. We reluctantly admitted if we treated our spouses, children, friends and work with the same dedication we reserve for God we might be in trouble. 

      Upon reflection, I found the amount of time I offer God is not commensurate with the blessings I have received. So this month I restructured the way I scheduled my priorities and activities. I “plugged” God in first and then arranged remaining obligations around my spiritual commitments.

      By adhering to my new plan, I enjoy more time with God on a daily basis. I also spend less time talking on the phone (it was robbing me of more time than I thought!) and watching TV. 

      Surprisingly, I do have additional time for God…as long as I don’t waste it elsewhere. The truth is we find time for what we value and enjoy.

Copyright 2005 by Nora Melikian